Choosing And using Pheromone Cologne - The Non-chemist's Guide to Personal Chemistry
Have you ever met someone who appeared to have got 'that certain something', which 'radiated confidence' or even 'oozed sexiness'? What would it be like should you suddenly found yourself more appealing and also appealing to be with, getting more positive attention from every person you share data along with each and every day? Just how much would you appreciate in which kind of positive change in your own life?
That is how much when you are using pheromones. But, are you afraid you need a degree in chemistry to comprehend these kinds of products? Well, you don't, because here is the non-chemist's guide to personal chemistry. I will explain all you need to know so that you can have a great time finding the magic formula that will take your interpersonal connections to another location level - right now!
What are Pheromones and How Do They Affect Others?
Think of them as fragrances that are designed not only to smell good, but also in order to affect people in a subtle and unconscious way - the same way you would be affected by being close to a very attractive person.
The kind of pheromone products you will decide to buy depends on the indicators you want to send. There are many formulations in the marketplace, that can generally can be categorized based on their desired effect. According to this kind of, they will fall into these kinds of groups: Sexual stimuli and attractants (make you more sexy) Warm and unclear (make you more friendly, huggable, people have to get close to you) Man of the house (dominant but not necessarily sexual) Trust in a bottle (create trust as well as rapport with members of both sex)
That's right, although pheromone effects are more pronounced with members of the opposite sex, they do have a non-sexual relation to members of the same sex as well. The net effect is that others will perceive you as being more attractive and pleasant to be around in a number of ways.
- And since the products mimic natural body chemistry, these tendencies are quite natural and unconscious on the part of those people who are affected.
- Some of the people you meet will be more 'tuned into' the pheromones.
- I have found that a lot of younger women in particular are affected and attracted to the products.
- Nice to get which sort of attention, isn't really it?
By the Numbers
Here is how pheromones works for you: Why don't we assume that you are a woman that guys might rate 7 on their attractiveness scale. What would it be like for you if you are all of a sudden perceived as a 8 or 8.5? Just what if you were a 5 and could suddenly be perceived as a 6.5 or 7?
Or, if you are a man that is always 'just friends' with women - what would it be like to suddenly be perceived as sexier - someone they just felt compelled to hold, to touch and kiss? Maybe you already come across to the ladies as sexually aggressive - maybe too much so. Won't it be nice youngster should be radiate the trust, comfort and ease, as well as warmth that allows them feel safer around you?
Can you imagine the difference this would make in your life? It may range from dramatic to subtle to not at all, depending on the particular person and interaction. But you know you will feel more confident, interesting and attractive and have lots more opportunities and choices in social situations.
What They Won't Do - a Reality Check
So, will people be attracted to you like a magnet from across the room, or crowd around you in order to bask in your presence? Maybe, but not likely.
Will each and every member of the opposite sex be hopelessly drawn to you? Not necessarily - some people just can't handle being around a very attractive person. Their reaction may be to be able to 'freeze or flee' because you are just too hot to handle. Overall, a nice problem to possess, right think?
- Will you see a dramatic improvement in your love life?
- Probably, but that is largely up to you.
- Yet, you will have a lot of the possibility to improve that making use of these products!
How They Affect You
One of the more interesting and unexpected effects will be the change in how you feel after you start using the products. Because the pheromones affect you at the same time and the same way they are affecting others, and you will find yourself feeling more attractive and appealing - not a bad sideeffect to have going into a social situation.
When Pheromones Go Wrong - Overdose?
Will it make a very sexy person sexier? There are situations where a little is good and a lot is not as good. (Happens with regular fragrances, too, doesn't it?) If you already are a great 'alpha' male or female, adding pheromones to your chemistry may intimidate some members of the opposite sex or bring out aggressivenss in the members of the same sex as as they unconsciously react to the challenge you present.
Who Uses All of Them, Which Must Utilize Them
By now you have figured out that pheromones are not just for dating and sexual attraction. You may already be aware that psychological studies have shown that attractive people are more successful in all areas of life.
- Anyone who is in sales, or has a lot of public contact will take advantage of using pheromones.
- And, the advantages in order to someone who is actually dating and socializing are obvious.
- Or perhaps, you might be thinking that you want to be able to rekindle the flame and add some excitement to your existing relationships.
How to Have Started
Experimentation is the best way to find out what works best for you. Everyone's personal chemistry is different, and your mileage, as they say, will be different. Fortunately there are a number of samplers and beginner kits available and that is where you would like to begin with.
Experiment and Have a Great Time
Try using the same product for several days in a row and pay attention to the reactions of people around you. Try it in the recommended application level, then vary that - add some extra, don't use quite just as much. After that try another product for a while. And, most good pheromone suppliers will have a lot of information and advice in on-line boards and discussion groups.
Do they work and dark beer well worth it? Absolutely!!!
Copyright 2006 Phil Billitz
Phil Billitz - Phil is a handwriting analyst, poet, digital photographer, technologist and addicted to Argentine Tango. To learn more about pheremone products, modern love verses, the "Hell Trait Report", personality tests, Blog of Love, and more, check out TheLoveStroke.com - Dating and Relationship Advice.